Which Golden Girl are you? An existential crisis

I am a Rose. Always have been, probably always will be. But I’ve spent most of my life trying to be the other ones. Sure, Rose is sweet. But she’s the one you make fun of for being so innocent and optimistic and ditzy. Dorothy is the cool one. Dorothy is the equivalent of being […]

Why people choose chaos over love

It is harder for many people to allow love to pierce their heart than to have chaotic, painful relationships…When I was an adolescent, a very dear young man named Eddie pursued me. I liked him, I enjoyed being with him, and one day I just froze up and couldn’t talk to him. Many years later […]

who i have a crush on

People who thank the bus driver. People who tip extra. People who let people with one or two items go ahead in the grocery store line. People who help empty the dishwasher at work even though it’s not “their job.” People who pick up litter. People who flatten their cardboard boxes before recycling them. People […]

top 15 songs of 2018

These songs didn’t necessarily come out in 2018, but they were on heavy rotation for me this year! Enjoy! Bonus: They’re all by or featuring women. (Sorry not sorry at all, cishet white guys.) In no particular order…

there’s nothing wrong with you

My therapist told me that today. Not in a “We’re done here; you’ve evolved and are perfect, TRUMPET NOISE!!!!1” way (snort). In a “You go through life thinking you’re bad and wrong and messed up and THAT’S why people are shitty and that’s not true” way. There’s nothing wrong with me. Or you. WHAT A REVOLUTIONARY […]

~*fall 2018 + resort 2019 runway lewkz~*

Remember when I had daily access to Photoshop AND a plausible reason to look at Womenswear Daily all day long? I miss those days. Not that job, just making fashion collages. So armed with a free online Photoshop ripoff and slightly rusty skillz, I’M BACK. Here we go (all photos via WWD): The Valentino team […]