breakup town: how to date someone avoidant

tl;dr You can’t. They won’t let you. You’ll try to get close & it’ll feel like banging your head against a wall. This reinforces your beliefs of inadequacy. THOSE ARE A LIE. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH JUST AS YOU ARE. RUN.

Pitch Perfect and attachment theory

I love¬†Pitch Perfect. It has plenty of problems¬†with race. But it also has a cast full of talented, awesome women (Rebel Wilson, pre-Super Fun Night…those were the days), a female writer, and a female producer. And Beca (Anna Kendrick), its main character, has a really refreshing take on relationships. Let’s back up. Have you read […]